Have you ever been friends with someone that you thought would be your friend for life and in less than a season you lose contact?
About 2 days ago I met such a friend. He was a guy that I would hangout with regularly; then all of a sudden we just stopped hanging out at all. partly because I started working different hours and because I sensed that I was the only one putting out any effort to keep the relationship flowing....
If you have any experiences like that explain? what would you do if you met a distant or has been friend?
what would you say???? should you trust their friendship or start from scratch??
I have had this experience once. I lost a really close friend over something childish that all turned out to be a miscommunication in the end. She only listened to hearsay and never talked to me about it. Now, we are "associates" which means we are cool but not close. I personally think its sad because I really cared about our friendship but one thing I learned is that you cant force a person to want to hang out with you. In the end I guess what I'm saying is Forgive but never forget...In all, fight for what is worth fighting for cause in the end at least you know you tried
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